A Thursday- Phone Call

On a usual Thursday, I gave her a buzz ,

She :- hello Kon ?
Me:- hi ....Kaisi Ho ?

She :- disconnected !!!

I called up again , this time after a long ring ,some other girl  picked up who introduced herself as her elder sister.

Elder Sister :- Hello whose this ?

Me :- Deepak ,  You ...?

Elder Sister :- No, I am her elder sister, aap ki problem kya hai...??

Me :- what ???

Elder Sister :- aapki problem kya hai...? Tumhari koi self respect hai ya nahi , jab ek baar ek ladki ne mana kar diya , kyun baar baar fon kar rahe ho, kyun nai nai Id's se mail kar rahe ho, I have read all your emails & i know everything about you . Agar tumne dobaara phone kiya , we will give all your details to police .

Me :- See, I have not call to argue with you , I need to talk to her , Please give the phone to her .

Elder Sister :- I am not giving phone to her , jo bolna hai mujhe bolo , tumhe koi ladki nahi mili 5 saal me ???

Me :- aap kaisi baatein kar rahi hai...? & and what type of question is this aapko or  koi ladki nahi mili ...See I am not at all interested in talking to you , I need to talk to her , so please give the phone to her

Elder Sister :- I am not giving phone to her , & from future onwards , if you will call ,i will only answer , so please dont call again !!

Me :- ** Silence **

Elder Sister :- **Disconnected **

Before Calling Her 

Before calling her , I was in Agra , happy to join my duty back after the Accident , I was so confused about making the decision regarding job opportunity in Oman , I needed some friendly advice , whoz more friendly than her , shez the one who inspired me , shez the one with whom's invisible motivation i progressed , She happens to be my strength , I believed i can do anything , when shez around.

So i thought lets forget everything what happened in the past ,let bygones be bygones.
So i called up.


After Calling Her :-

After calling her , I felt humiliated , her elder sister was right , I have lost & put down my self respect , that was just to get in touch with her, I love her so much , I have no ego to fight for , to get in touch with her.

I got insulted , that was the foremost kind of insult i have faced from a girl ,

& To her elder Sister :- Dear I fear no police , no military ,you just dont know me enough , that you have claimed over phone.
& about your pathetic question ;- Tumhe or koi ladki nahi mili ?

My answer is :- Ladkiya toh boht mili, but no one was like her , no one compared to her , i dont know whether you're in a relationship with anyone , but as you said you're her elder sister , i respect you a lot that way , but you know nothing about love , I love her , & when you're in love with someone,every other girl & beauty fades away ,you just ignore everyone else & concentrate on a single person whom you're in love with.

You did a great job being an elder sister , I did that many times when someone used to call my female friends & my sisters , believe me i am an elder brother too , i have two younger sisters .


But what you did ,definitely made me think , about the life without her , i had never thought about that, since i saw her first time till the time i spoke to you, & I am no Psycho ,who will keep on stalking & do crazy things.

You won !!!

An Open Letter To The Girl Who Let The Nice Guy Go

I’ve seen it happen way too many times: The nice guy loses the girl for being exactly who he is.

What’s even worse is if he’s really the nice guy, he’s going to lose her and say nothing about it. He’ll accept it as something she truly wants and give her his best wishes, as she walks away being everything he could ever want.

On behalf of all the nice guys out there, this is to the girl who walked out on the best thing that ever happened to her:

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Dear Girl Who Walked Away,

It’s not like you weren’t aware of what you were getting yourself into. He told you he was nice. He trusted easily and gave you all he could when he could.

The nice guy believes in doing things right. He was there when you needed him to be, and he went out of his way to make sure you knew just how much you could mean to someone.

We live in a generation where we all have to wear masks and play parts to make it through the battlefield of dating in the 21st century. There is no such thing as giving it your all.

We like quotes on Facebook and post things on Instagram stating we want the masochist one day and the romantic the next. We play these games where being available can only happen sometimes, and playing hard-to-get must be our number one priority. Why?

I thought the ultimate goal was to eventually settle down. I mean, what is the point of dating if you have no desire for it to go anywhere? If a one-night stand is what you’re looking for, leave the good guys alone and toy within the levels you lay down.

Save yourself time and energy because the good guy isn’t going to make it easy to just walk away. The good guy cares, so he’ll get his explanation from you even though he knows it’ll be a load of bull.

Every girl says she likes the assh*le because he’s the challenge — the one she must break, train and force to be more than just a douchebag. Have you ever thought, however, maybe you were the girl in need of learning what it means to actually feel again?

You went through something, like we all do, and because of it you changed. It’s normal and heartbreak happens, but the next assh*le didn’t fix what the first one did; he kept it the same or made it worse. His priority was not you and couldn’t be you. So now you’re bitter and closed off from anything remotely more satisfying than a one-night stand.

I won’t deny that the assh*le is fun or that a good time isn’t promised with him, but when it’s all said and done, is it ever more than just a good time? Probably not.

In fact, the assh*le has a charm about him; it’s the charm you justify your pursuit with. You say, “There’s just something about him.” However, it’s probably the same quality that ended up hurting you in the past.

So you tried to push the nice guy away. When he wouldn’t go away, you pushed harder. Still, he didn’t give up and every time you pushed harder, he pulled you in even more.

He ignored your fears and forced you to grow; he fought for your passions when you were too busy writing them off. He forgot your wants and focused on everything you needed. Then you walked away because he was too nice.

He gave you too much of everything you wanted, and life got too easy. You wanted conflict and hardship as if everything else in life did not promise you an endless journey of just that. This is where you failed.

The nice guy has been hurt, too, he just chose to stay nice. He learned that different people were going to provide him different things in life. The nice guy also chose not to let any of it change who he was.

So, he let you walk away and he called it a day. Everyone always says there are plenty of fish in the sea, and he let you go knowing this, even though it hurt.

What you don’t know is that someone else is out there, and she won’t be as foolish you. When you realize all you really want is the nice guy who cares about you too much, it’s going to be too late. Some other girl will be able to see how great he is, and she won’t waste a minute.

So you lost your Ted Mosby and, I promise, to him you were Robin. The nice guys are there to give you a break, a light to something more than the games we identify our generation with.

He may have loved you too soon and it was too crazy and too much, but guys like Mosby don’t happen every day; they happen never. He got you the blue French horn, and he made you feel love when love was no longer a part of your vocabulary. You were now saying “I love you” again and remembering what it felt like.

He was the guy you were supposed to end up with, who makes everything change. I just wish you’d see it before another girl does because at the end of the day, everyone, including the nice guy you don’t deserve, is rooting only for you.

Courtesy :- Elitedaily.com